The Real Reason Why People Kiss At Midnight On New Year’s Eve


New Year's Eve is the last hurrah of the year. It's the final event in a holiday binge of eating, drinking, and celebrating.

It's a time to don glitzy outfits, reflect on the past, and ponder future resolutions ... and then there's the kiss at the stroke of midnight.

Whether you ring in the new year by watching the Times Square ball drop from your living room TV or toasting champagne at an upscale nightclub, tradition makes a case for celebrating the new year with people you enjoy.

Why do people traditionally share a midnight kiss on New Year's Eve?
If you have ever wondered why people kiss at midnight on New Year's Eve, according to English and German folklore, the first person you encounter in a new year — and the nature of this encounter — sets the tone for the rest of the year.

A kiss is about strengthening ties you wish to maintain in the future.

If a couple that celebrates together doesn't take the time to lock lips, it doesn't bode well for the relationship.

For single people, there's a superstition that not kissing anyone portends a year of loneliness … and probably a lot of bad online dating. (OK, I made that last part up.) Then again, kissing some sleazy random who may or may not have a girlfriend is definitely worse than kissing no one at all.

This may arise from the Scottish tradition of Hogmanay, their traditional word for the last day of the year. During a Hogmanay party, it's customary to try kissing everyone in the room as the bells ring at stroke of midnight.

Passionate New Year's Eve kisses are featured prominently in popular culture.
In Bridget Jones's Diary, a New Year's Eve kiss brings Bridget Jones and Mark Darcy back together. The Godfather: Part II also features an emotional New Year's Eve kiss, but this one's not about sexual tension. Instead, Michael Corleone gives his brother Fredo a furious kiss of death after being betrayed.

The New Year's Eve kiss at the end of When Harry Met Sally is the beginning of a happily-ever-after for the two estranged friends. It's just as memorable as the fake orgasm scene at the deli. Harry finally admits he's in love with Sally.

"It's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible," he says. Sally's shocked response: "That is just like you, Harry. You say things like that, and you make it impossible for me to hate you."

Too bad we can't all have what she's having.

Expectations vs. Reality of the New Year's Eve Kiss
Like any other holiday, New Year's Eve can put a great deal of stress on those of us without plus-ones.

Last year, Mary, 40, of Brooklyn, NY, ditched New Year's plans she'd made with friends because she didn't want to be the one single person in the group.

Mary stayed at home — where a New Year's kiss wasn't a possibility or a threat — and she ended up regretting the decision.

Jason, 34, of New York City keeps the reveling low-key if he finds himself single come December.

"I'm not going to go out stag with some vague hope of meeting someone to end the night with a kiss or more," he says. "It never happens. It just leads to drunken disappointment and a hangover, which is a terrible way to start a new year."

But even having a significant other doesn't guarantee a romantic smooch at midnight — though many couples aren't even bothered by it.

Take Jennifer, 44, of Oklahoma City. She and her husband replace a romantic night out on the town with a family-friendly community event with their three children.

"Who has time for New Year's Eve kisses or money for a babysitter?" she says. "My husband says the New Year's Eve kiss is passé because we're too tired to stay up that late."